For your bad days…

I am having bad day. The combination of new medicine, diet changes, and everyday issues have left me feeling fatigued, helpless, hopeless, useless, and pathetically unhealthy.

On days like today, it is so easy to become stuck in these feelings. However, look around.

When I look around I see a peaceful bedroom I have set up with days like today in mind. All white and teal everything. Candles and flowers gracing any empty spot and pictures of my family and loved ones surround me. I see the sunshine coming in from my whiten linen draped windows. I see fluffy pillows and irreplaceable stuffed animals my Granny made years ago, before she died. I see books and Bibles. I see my own artwork that I made myself to lift my spirits. I see lights and garland so my room looks like a fairy wonderland. All around me I see hope and love. So why should I let today stand in the way of all the love I have tried so hard to surround myself with.

What do you see when you look around? You may not see a twinkling fairy wonderland like I do (because, let’s be honest, that is not for everyone..) but I am sure you see a few of these common things. Do you see books? You are educated and care about yourself enough to indulge yourself in your own education. Do you see a bed? You are luckier than the estimated 100 million homeless people in the world right now. Do you see pictures of yourself and family? You have people in your life, who although you may not always get along with, they care. Do you see a refrigerator with some food? Granted it may not be stocked full of healthy fruits and vegetables, you are lucky to even have what mystery foods are in there. Do you see a tv? Poverty has stricken America in overwhelming ways, but you are doing well enough to own a tv! Do you have lights on? Many Americans do not.

Whether or not you have everything I listed above, I promise you if you sit and look around you can find things to be thankful for and those things will give you HOPE. Get up, smile, take a shower, tomorrow will bring new blessings. God bless you, my friends. It gets better.




Colossians 1:17-18

“God’s Son was before all else, and by him everything is held together. He is the head of his body, which is the church. He is the very beginning, the first to be raised from death, so that he would be above all others.”


Let’s break this verse down.. God’s son was before all else. He was before your sins, my sins, the sins of our world. And by him everything is held together. You know how when you turn on the tv and see the news about another shooting, another riot, or the latest political shenanigans and you think, “By the grace of God, we are all still here.” That is how I interpret this part. I feel like with all the evil running rampant in our world today, God would look down and just throw his hands in the air, giving up on his hateful children. But by the grace of God and Jesus himself, everything is held together. This verse says that everything is held together by Jesus, which means everything you hold dear that you want to stay intact, the center needs to be Jesus. Your marriage. Your job. You talents. Your relationship with your children. Your relationship with yourself. Everything is held together by God’s son, so if He is not the center, it ain’t staying intact! Next, Jesus is the head and the church is the body. That again to me means, Jesus is to steer us (the church) in the right direction. He is the very beginning, the first to be raised from death, so that he would be above all others. God himself orchestrated the miracle of the death and resurrectional of Jesus to demonstrate the strength of his hands. He needed his children millions of years from then, to look back in awe and see Jesus as the one and only savior.


I hope this helps you find your inner peace today and understand this verse a little better! Feel free to leave your opinion in the comments.

What to do on flare up days?

If you, like me, suffer from a chronic illness you are bound to have a flare up day eventually. These are days when your symptoms flare up and you feel limited to your bed. In many cases, you really can not do much because your body is busy fighting off whatever is going on and this can make you feel like you have ran a marathon when in actuality you have been in bed all day. These days can seem dark, depressing, and endless. For many of us we sit in a dark room, in bed, and watch tv or sleep all day. While that may be okay to do sometimes, eventually that will lead you to a dark place of hopelessness. So I have put together some ideas to make flare up days not so bad.

  1. You have a chronic illness. Your body is fighting off this illness constantly and that will take a tole on your already tired body. Do not push yourself or feel lazy. Take the time you need to rejuvenate and come back strong and ready to kick more chronic illness butt! It’s okay to take time for yourself.
  2. Open the curtains and let the sunshine in. You can still lay down and rest, but letting the sunshine even for a little while will lift your spirits. I promise.
  3. Read your Bible. Even just a chapter can fill you with hope and grace! He almost always leads me to a verse that I needed to hear at that specific time.
  4. Make a to do list. This is something that helps me a lot! I am one of those people who give myself a hard time about laying in bed all day so by giving myself a simple and realistic to do list and accomplishing it, I feel like the day was not totally a waste. So for me this to do list will be as simple as, clean off the nightstands, sepera the laundry, and paint. Simple, but also productive while letting my body rejuvenate itself.
  5. Write! This is also a big one guys! I believe when you are writing to inspire others, you inspire yourself the most! Start a blog, write in a journal, something. Let your creative juices flow. I believe that more people with chronic illness need to spread the word!
  6. Get a pet. This is a big step I know so only follow through with this one if you are going to consistently take care of this animal! Having a pet has been a lifesaver for me and I mean that literally. I have a yorkie named Sophie who has been my best friend for eight years now. When you have a pet you truly connect with, it is a blessing from God! Sophie knows everything I swear. If i am in a good mood, she is running around and playful. If I am having a bad day, she will come over and lay in my lap. If I am having a flare up day, she wants to be lazy and cuddle all day. Having a pet can give you a sense that someone needs you and responsibility which can help you on those days when you feel sick and useless. Many people with chronic illness can have service dogs which are very necessary for some.
  7. Join a support group for your illness. This has help me a lot not only through flare up days, but also finding more information. Behcet’s disease is very rare so many doctors have never heard of it. No doubt, other patients have taught me more than doctors have. These people know your pain and they know the demons that come with flare up days, talk to them!
  8. Invite friends over for an hour or so. Having someone to talk to is important! Do not isolate yourself. This will also give you something to look forward to during the day.
  9. Light candles. It sounds crazy, but cables or wax warmers (anything that puts off a scent really) has helped me. It is something I enjoy and it lifts my spirit when I am feeling uninspired.
  10. Take up a small hobby to do during these days. Coloring, painting, jewelry making, writing to a pin pal, something, anything! Turn these days into something positive!


Behçet’s Flare Up 

Today I had a follow up doctor’s appointment with the dermatologist since the biopsy. During the previous appointment she prescribed prednisone to calm down the current flare up I was having. I took it for three weeks and then the week after I had a follow up appointment to see how the medicine worked. While taking prednisone, I was super energetic and cranky. I got a lot done though. Yesterday I had another flare up and this time it came back with a vengeance. I have rashes on my chest, face, back, arms, and legs. I have oral and genital ulcers again and my body feels like I’ve been hit by a truck. This is what Behçet’s looks like. I could only include the few pictures that were G rated, but you can still see the impact this disease has on me. So I went home today with some big decisions to make regarding my treatment. I can take a medicine called Dapzone everyday that has big side effects like anemia or I can try vitamin infusions which don’t have a huge history of successful treatment, and long term treatment can result in hair loss. Decisions, decisions…

Today I was diagnosed..

Over a year ago, I began to notice strange symptoms. I started questioning my own health. I had several doctor’s appointments, but my symptoms were so broad no one seemed to be able to put the pieces together. I have been told everything from herpes to fibromyalgia, and everything in between all with negative test results. I decided I would stay persistent and do my own research. After months of looking into each mysterious symptom, I came across Behcet’s Disease. As soon as I saw those words, I just knew that is what I had. I told nurses and doctors, and all of them told me that disease was much too rare. To fully understand how tiring this process was I ask that you read Health Update and Biopsy Day, located under My Health Journey category.

A week ago, I visited the dermatologist to get a biopsy of an oral ulcer. This test would give me the answers and reassurance I had been looking for. Today I got the call saying that the test showed positive for Behcet’s Disease. At first, I felt happy that throughout this process I did not let anyone discourage me or change my thoughts on my own illness. I was also very happy that the tests can stop now. As time goes on, it is starting to hit me that I was just diagnosed with a chronic illness. An illness that for the rest of my life will pop up when I least expect it. Behcet’s is a very rare disease. According to the American Behcet’s Disease Association, it is estimated that 3-5 / 100,000 people have Behcet’s Disease in the United States. However, I am not upset. I understand that God gives us all certain struggles and there must be a reason he gave me this one.

I hope this inspires people not only to listen to their heart, but also to never give up. Trust me, if I can get through the tough situations that have came my way in the past year, you can get through the hardships you are facing right now too. Remember, God has a bigger plan for us than what we can even dream of so these trials are just to shape you into the person He created you to be.

“Always be joyful and never stop praying. Whatever happens, keep thanking God because of Jesus Christ. This is what God wants you to do.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Stand Together.

It is a scary time to be alive right now. In the past few years, we have witnessed terrorist attacks, multiple mass shootings, kidnappings, murders, rape, government conspiracies, think of your worst nightmare and it has happened here in America. Don’t get me wrong, I love being American and living in America, but that does not make these events any less terrifying. Let’s do some research..

The following is all directly from

Here are some highlights from Crime in the United States, 2014:

There were an estimated 1,165,383 violent crimes (murder and non-negligent homicides, rapes, robberies, and aggravated assaults) reported by law enforcement.
Aggravated assaults accounted for 63.6 percent of the violent crimes reported, while robberies accounted for 28.0 percent, rape 7.2 percent, and murders 1.2 percent.
There were an estimated 8,277,829 property crimes (burglaries, larceny-thefts, and motor vehicle thefts) reported by law enforcement. Financial losses suffered by victims of these crimes were calculated at approximately $14.3 billion.
Larceny-theft accounted for 70.8 percent of all property crimes reported, burglary for 20.9 percent, and motor vehicle theft for 8.3 percent
Police made an estimated 11,205,833 arrests during 2014—498,666 for violent crimes, and 1,553,980 for property crimes. More than 73 percent of those arrested during 2014 were male.
The highest number of arrests was for drug abuse violations (1,561,231), followed by larceny-theft (1,238,190) and driving under the influence (1,117,852).

The following is from regarding gun violence.

Total Number of Incidents 27,447
Number of Deaths 7,095
Number of Injuries 14,646
Number of Children (age 0-11)
Killed/Injured 314
Number of Teens (age 12-17)
Killed/Injured1 1,541
Mass Shooting 179
Officer Involved Incident
Officer Shot/Killed 170
Officer Involved Incident
Perpetrator Shot/Killed 950
Home Invasion 1,151
Defensive Use 845
Accidental Shooting 1,171

Gun violence and crime incidents are collected/validated from 1,500 sources daily – incidents and their source data are found at the website.

1: Actual number of deaths and injuries
2: Number of INCIDENTS reported and verified

Numbers on this table reflect a subset of all information
collected and will not add to 100% of incidents.

Data Validated: July 08, 2016
Gun Violence Archive

I do not blame guns, race, sexual orientation, religion, cops, or even ignorance. I blame hatred and the devil. People whose hearts are filled with hatred are prime victims for the devil to invade their minds and corrupt them with even more hatred and violence. Crime and hatred is on the rise, which means the devil is on the rise. Christians, we have to stand together! The only way to eliminate this hate, is with love. So Christians, I challenge you to spread love everywhere you go. The devil’s followers want us to hate them! That means we let them win. So literally kill them with kindness. It is not our job to sacrifice these people with our words. Nothing we can say or do can compare to the wrath God will have on the devil’s followers. Smile to the lady who is rude to you at the grocery store. Scream “God bless you!” to the man that screamed curse words at you. Send flowers to your hateful boss on their birthday.  Pray for the evil people who attack our religion, freedom, and our lives everyday. Pray they find love, peace, and most of all GOD. God has to fight this war for us, but he won’t fight for a bunch of unworthy, unreligious citizens. God will fight for devout, loving Christians. Spread God’s love everywhere you go, that is the only thing that can fight the devil and his evil.


“I will bless your country with peace, and you will rest without fear. I will wipe out the dangerous animals and protect you from enemy attacks.”
‭‭Leviticus‬ ‭26:6‬ ‭CEVUS06‬‬


“Think of the bright future waiting for all the families of honest, innocent, and peace-loving people.”
‭‭Psalms‬ ‭37:37‬ ‭CEVUS06‬‬


Biopsy Day

Today I went in to the dermatologist office expecting them to do a biopsy on my oral and genital ulcers. After she examined all my ulcers she told me it definitely looked like Behçet’s, which to my surprise she has actually treated before! She told me because it looked so similar to Behçet’s she didn’t think the biopsy was necessary. She said we could do prednisone for three weeks, lowering the dosage each week, and if it responds then we would assume it is Behcet’s. I thought I wanted to do the biopsy because I just really wanted answers, but the doctor, nurse, and my mom all told me it was not necessary. As soon as the nurse and Doctor left the room, I started to cry. I felt like I would never be able to get answers without that biopsy. So when the nurse came back in I again asked if she thought I should do the biopsy and again she told me it isn’t necessary. I again started to cry and explain to her this has been a year long process of thinking I had this disease without any definite answers. So finally I had the guts to say, “Let’s do the biopsy.” The doctor came back in and told me the numbing would be the worse part of the procedure. She numbed it, I felt a slight pinch and a sting; however, it was not bad at all! Then she used a punch (looked like a cookie cutter) to cut the ulcer completely out. She then put the piece she cut out into a little bottle and put two small, silk stitches in. I’m a huge baby, but that pain was not bad at all. Now it’s an hour later and the numbing has worn off some so I’m a little sore and swollen. Once again, I’m very thankful that I listened to my gut and did the biopsy because now I will have a pretty accurate answer in just a week. image

Health Update

Parts of this are hard to share because they are so personal, but I’m so frustrated with the whole situation I feel this story needs to be shared. So be warned, personal information ahead….

First some information about the disease from

Behcet’s Disease, also known as Behcet’s syndrome, is a rare, chronic, autoinflammatory disorder of unknown origin. Its manifestations are thought to be caused by vasculitis resulting in damage to blood vessels throughout the body.
Current research suggests viral, bacterial, genetic and environmental factors may play a role in the development of Behcet’s Disease, but no specific cause has been established and no triggers have been identified. Epidemiological studies suggest there are approximately 16,000-20,000 cases of Behcet’s Disease in the United States (approximately 1 case out of every 170,000 individuals). Behcet’s is considered a rare disease in the United States because it affects less than 200,000 people.
Behcet’s Disease is NOT contagious, therefore, it does not spread from one person to another. Symptoms vary from person to person. The most common symptoms include oral ulcers, genital ulcers, inflammation of the eye, skin lesions, and arthritis. Inflammation inside of the eye (anterior or posterior uveitis, retinitis, and iritis) may be serious and lead to loss of vision if untreated. A complete eye exams should be part of the assessment if ocular manifestations are present. Other symptoms of the disease may include blood clots, inflammation in the central nervous system, symptoms of the digestive tract, and rarely, involvement of the kidneys.
Treatment of Behcet’s Disease is symptomatic. It is aimed at reducing symptoms and preventing complications. Prognosis varies based on the organ systems involved.

In June of 2015 after spending a few days at the lake I noticed sores on my genitals. I had forgotten my Summer’s Eve wash at my house so I decided to go to the closest store and buy some more. The kind I bought was the same brand just a different scent. The sores looked like ulcers not bumps or itchy spots, but they hurt so bad I could barely walk. They were two located right next to each other so every time I moved they rubbed together. A few days later they were gone and I chalked the whole issue up to my sensitive skin and the new scented wash.

In December of 2015, the sores came back a week before my very first trip to Disney world which was a gift from my boyfriend. I was in so much pain, I actually considered staying home and wasting his money. After talking to my mother, she convinced me to go to the gynecologist and keep my vacation plans. As soon as my gynecologist looked at the sores she said, “Yep! That’s herpes!” With no compassion. I jumped out of my skin. I have only had sex with two people in my life. Now I am not naive, I know you can get herpes even if only having sex with two people, but it felt so unfair that this could happen to someone who was so careful. I asked if she was sure and she again told me I had herpes, but she would take a culture of both “sores.” The culture basically felt like a plastic brush that they scraped skin off of both sores and then they tested it for herpes. I was told this is the most effective way to recognize herpes. I told her, that I had done research and I looked up sores and the herpes sore I saw pictures of looked different than the sores I had. The “sores” I had looked just like ulcers you get in your mouth. She never acknowledged the fact that it could be anything but herpes. On my way out of the doctor’s office I cried my eyes out. How could this happen to me? I was just in shock. I then made an ass out of myself to my boyfriend. She prescribed some medicine which I don’t remember the name of to treat herpes and a huge tub of lidocaine to numb my sores while at Disney just well enough so I could walk. During my trip to Disney I was desperately reliant on my tub of lidocaine so much so that it stayed in my backpack and I had to reapply it throughout the day to make walking less miserable. I did not let being on vacation stop me from looking into my illness myself. If the doctors were not going to be open minded enough to look into other things I would have to be. One night googling “herpes misdiagnosis” I came across a lady’s story. She had Behçet’s disease yet she was treated for herpes for twenty years before finding out that in fact it was Behcet’s the whole time! Twenty years of untreated Bechet’s disease did a huge toll on her nerves and she was unable to walk. I would not let this happen to me. I saw that plenty of symptoms I had lined up with Behcet’s, but I’ve always been paranoid and assumed I was overreacting. Two excruciating weeks after the doctor’s appointment and also while on my vacation, I got a call from the doctor. The results came back negative! But instead of the nurse being happy for me, she said “But it is probably herpes.” What?! I got very angry with her. “She told me that is the most effective way of determining whether or not it is herpes and it came back negative but yet you’re telling me I still have it?!” So I brought up to Behcet’s disease and how many people are misdiagnosed with herpes. I will never forget what this idiot told me. “That disease is way too rare, there is no way you have it.” Furiously, I called my doctor a few days later. I talked to the lady at the front desk and she assured me that Jackie, the nurse, would call me back. I guess all the other nurses there had their feel of me because every time I call I get the same monotone, “What’s your number and Jackie will call you back.” Those nurses could tell you a few stories about me! Jackie called me back and said the same thing, “Behcet’s is very rare, I doubt that’s it.” I told Jackie to have my doctor call me back.. A few more days later, same exact answer from my doctor over the phone. “It is just too rare.” Just let that sink in.

FYI if you asked anyone who was on that Disney trip about this they would have no idea all of this happened (until now 😆) because I was so overwhelmed by the whole situation. I also did not want to ruin an amazing experience for everyone else by constantly reminding everyone I was in terrible pain. So I silently dealt with being humiliated of being tested for and the idea of having herpes, calls from my doctor, pain every time I move, and desperately reapplying lidocaine. But let me just say through it all, I still had an amazing time. The first time I noticed the numbing in my hands, legs, and feet was also on this vacation (eventful, I know!) I just assumed that maybe it was due to all the walking and out of an effort to not complain about being in pain the whole trip I decided to keep this information to myself.

Fast forward to February 2016, I have experienced numbness here and there, but I didn’t think it was anything big. I gave up on the fact I had Bechet’s and assumed it was just a freak incident. Then before I knew it, the sores were back. I had such an awful experience at the gynecologist the first time I decided to deal with the ulcers myself this time with my huge tub of lidocaine and pray they go away fast. The ulcers were more painful and larger than usual. I also felt like they lasted longer. This didn’t concern me though. In March is when the numbness became more prominent. I would tell my mom or boyfriend about it every now and then, but I would laugh it off and say, “My body just hates me!”

By May, I decided I had enough between how painful the sores were in February and the constant numbness and pain, I was ready to get answers. While doing some research I found a story of a lady who was diagnosed with Bechet’s because of a bad reaction to a TB test. I felt like I got hit by a truck!

Back in October of 2015, I started my job at a local day care. When working in child care, you have to get a TB test and guess who had an AWFUL reaction. As soon as she put the bubble under the skin of my arm, tons of tiny red dots appeared on both arms. The nurse at the doc n’ a box place I was at panicked, “Does this happen often?” “Uh..No. This never happens.” After a parade of different nurses and doctors coming in and out of the room, they decided I should stay until the dots went away. Not even an hour I was told.. I missed work that day! I was at the doctor for three and a half hours watching tv and drinking juice boxes. After reading her story, I just knew I’ve had Behçet’s for a long time and I always made excuses for my symptoms instead of acknowledging them.

On June 9, 2016 I had THE doctor’s appointment. The appointment when I was going to lay all my symptoms out and tell my doctor exactly what I thought I had. First I talked to a nurse practitioner, who I kept telling, “I know all this sounds crazy, but I really do experience all these symptoms.” She was very sweet, but also thrown off by my very over the top and demanding personality I am forced to have while at the doctor because all doctors have made me feel unheard and unimportant at one point or another (little did I know that feeling was about to get worse). Then my doctor came in. I went over the list of symptoms and she said, “This all sounds very familiar. Hold on a second.” She rushed out of the room. I didn’t want to mention Behçet’s right away, I wanted her to figure it out, because hell, I am not a doctor maybe I am crazy and that’s not it. I could hear her furiously typing at a station right outside my room. She called the nurse practitioner over, “Look this is it. I think this is what she has.” She came back in and said, “Okay, I think you have Behcet’s disease (mispronouncing it) but the good news is you aren’t going to die. It is treatable.” I tell her about my numbness and again she says, “Hold on.” Next, I’m not sure what happened or what exactly she was talking about but trust me it was terrifying to hear. She again yells to the nurse practitioner to come here and says, “Look these levels have been elevated for over a year. Wow. We have got to get her to Dr. Perkins ASAP. Jackie! Call Dr.(not mentioning names) and send Kelsey’s forms over.” She enters again and says, “Now I know you hate getting stuck, but there are some tests we can do to check for Behcet’s.” I interrupted her. I told her I did my research. I knew that’s what it was for a while now. I told her I talked to her, her nurse, Jackie, and my gynecologist and everyone told me it was too rare. Then I told her that I had a reaction to a TB test before… “Oh well that was the test I was about to do. We were going to see if you had a reaction. Since that test was less than a year ago, I guess I don’t need to do it again.”

As I walked out tons of information was thrown at me. “A dermatologist is going to be calling you. A rheumatologist is going to call you. There is a specialist I’m going to recommend. Then you’ll need to come back here. They’ll be lots of test!”

June 22, 2016 I have no new information and no new doctor’s appointments. One doctor has called me, the dermatologist, and they told me that they’ve never worked with Behcet’s before so they can’t see me unless I have a flare up. Numbness is happening everyday, multiple times a day. I have called my doctor three times and even Jackie won’t call me back. I called again today and no one called me back or gave me any information.
June 27 My doctor’s nurses still have not sent all the information needed to refer me to the rheumatologist. This is the fourth time I’ve called and spoken to someone about this issue.
July 2 Finally, the rheumatologist have received all of my information needed. I was told she needed a few days to review all the information about myself and Behcet’s before we could schedule an appointment. Also, two ulcers have appeared in my mouth. One on my upper lip in an area I couldn’t have bitten and one on the roof of my mouth.
July 5 Two genital ulcers have appeared in the usual place. Less painful this time and also two days after visiting the lake like the very first time I noticed the ulcers. The two ulcers in my mouth are still there. I have called my doctor and the dermatologist. Tomorrow I have an appointment to get biopsies of some or all of my ulcers.

My days are spent waiting on doctors to call that probably never will and a flare up to happen so maybe just maybe my dermatologist can treat them. To say I am frustrated is an understatement. How can you tell someone they have a disease and give them no new information in the next month? I was told to give these doctors a few days to do research on Behcet’s and then I would get calls. Maybe I am being impatient or maybe these doctors have no sympathy for what it’s like to have questions about your own health that no one seems to be able to answer.

Talking to people in a Behcet’s chat, many people recommend going to the specialist, Dr. Yusuf Yazici, in New York because so few doctors have successfully treated Behcet’s. Hopefully I can get some doctors in Alabama to actually call me back, but if not watch out Dr. Yusuf Yazici because I’m coming your way.

I would just like to tell you, listen to your body. Healthy people don’t have crazy aches, pains, and numbness. If you think there is something wrong, then there probably is and don’t listen to doctor’s telling you otherwise. You know your body better than anyone else.

The same goes for life in general. If in your heart you feel one way and everyone is telling you something else, don’t listen! You know you better than anyone! Don’t give up even when that’s all you want to do. I ask that you pray I get answers soon. Thank you for reading my story. I hope this raises awareness for Behcet’s and encourages people to never give up.

“We often suffer, but we are never crushed. Even when we don’t know what to do, we never give up.” ‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭4:8‬ ‭